Mean Girls

Why is it that women are in constant competition with one another? Whether it be regarding guys, or the way one looks, or what materialistic stuff one may have. We are always constantly trying to one up each other and many women are intentionally malicious. Correction, women are not in competition with one another, girls…

You Can’t Change What Happened

When relationships end, whether they were a year long, a few months long, or a short period of time; getting over that person isn’t fun. Certain people effect us more than others, and I’ve been wracking my brain trying to figure out why that is. For instance, you could have dated someone for a year and…

Tinder is a Hypocrite

I have been using Tinder for quite sometime, and I have met my fair share of people off of it. (You know who you are, holllaaaa) I always thought I was a respectful Tinder user, but apparently I am not. I got home from work on December 21st and I clicked on my Tinder app…

Tinder Experiment

I’ve been an avid Tinder user for quite sometime… yes I will admit it. Gotta find prince charming somewhere… I decided to do an experiment and see how many people I could match with, how many people message me first, and how many guys will give me their number without even having a conversation first.…

fa·mil·iar·i·ty over the un·known

fa·mil·iar·i·ty fəˌmilyˈerədē/ noun the quality of being well known; recognizability based on long or close association. I feel like most people have that one person, that one person that they can’t let go of. For whatever reason, when the going gets tough, or when you’re unsure of something, you always find yourself drawn to them.…

Fear and Perfectionism

fear ˈfir/ noun  an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat & per·fec·tion·ism pərˈfekSHəˌnizəm/ noun refusal to accept any standard short of perfection. Fear, and perfectionism are two things that can most certainly cause issues regarding new relationships. Don’t get me wrong, being…