What Are With All The Excuses?

ex·cuse verb ikˈskyo͞oz/ attempt to lessen the blame attaching to (a fault or offense); seek to defend or justify. So many of us try and make sense of situations by making excuses for people’s behavior (especially ones we are interested in) rather than looking at the big picture and realizing that something is off. Why…

What is a Fuck Boy?

The word fuck boy has been thrown around quite a lot lately, but what does fuck boy really mean? Urban dictionary seems to think it means: Fuck boy: Asshole boy who is into strictly sexual relationships; he will lead a girl on and let her down, then apologize only to ask for “pics” once the…

Fear and Perfectionism

fear ˈfir/ noun  an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat & per·fec·tion·ism pərˈfekSHəˌnizəm/ noun refusal to accept any standard short of perfection. Fear, and perfectionism are two things that can most certainly cause issues regarding new relationships. Don’t get me wrong, being…

Is Grammar and Spelling Dead?

Time and time again, I am having a conversation with a potential mate, and they always end up having atrocious spelling and grammar. This may not bother every girl out there, but for me it’s a huge deal breaker. Everyone has their deal breakers, but mine is spelling and grammar, and well a few other…