Fear and Perfectionism

fear ˈfir/ noun  an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat & per·fec·tion·ism pərˈfekSHəˌnizəm/ noun refusal to accept any standard short of perfection. Fear, and perfectionism are two things that can most certainly cause issues regarding new relationships. Don’t get me wrong, being…

Allow, & Forbid

“Imagine I allowed that” “I forbid them to do that” These phrases aren’t things one should say while in a relationship. I’m sure we have all been with someone who says these things, or we have even been the person saying those things. Controlling another persons decisions is not only childish, it’s very selfish. While…

How You Know You’re With The Right Person

Time and time again, we have been in relationships that don’t work out. We ask ourselves “why didn’t this relationship work?” There are plenty of reasons why a relationship didn’t work, but lets not focus on those today. (Remember, no one wants to be a debbie downer) Lets focus on ways to know you’re with the…