What Are With All The Excuses?

ex·cuse verb ikˈskyo͞oz/ attempt to lessen the blame attaching to (a fault or offense); seek to defend or justify. So many of us try and make sense of situations by making excuses for people’s behavior (especially ones we are interested in) rather than looking at the big picture and realizing that something is off. Why…

What is a Fuck Boy?

The word fuck boy has been thrown around quite a lot lately, but what does fuck boy really mean? Urban dictionary seems to think it means: Fuck boy: Asshole boy who is into strictly sexual relationships; he will lead a girl on and let her down, then apologize only to ask for “pics” once the…

Allow, & Forbid

“Imagine I allowed that” “I forbid them to do that” These phrases aren’t things one should say while in a relationship. I’m sure we have all been with someone who says these things, or we have even been the person saying those things. Controlling another persons decisions is not only childish, it’s very selfish. While…

Can You Spot the Cheater?

cheat·er -Someone who engages sexual relations with someone other than their significant other. Cheaters, they are everywhere… You just might not know it. It could be that cute guy that gives you a nice smile at the gym, it could be the woman who cashes you out at the supermarket, it could be the guy…

Be Wise, Don’t Believe His Lies

I’m sure we have all been there at one point in our lives; when we dated a person who mistreated us, but we continued to deal with their torment. Rather than recognizing that we probably deserve better, we continue to stay with them and hope that, one day, they may “change”. This is despite the…