Mean Girls

Why is it that women are in constant competition with one another? Whether it be regarding guys, or the way one looks, or what materialistic stuff one may have. We are always constantly trying to one up each other and many women are intentionally malicious. Correction, women are not in competition with one another, girls…

I am Not a Doormat

Many of us have trouble when it comes to standing up for ourselves or others. Instead we sit there and be treated poorly, or watch others be treated poorly. It’s a really shitty feeling when someone treats you poorly, when you have done nothing wrong, especially when it’s by someone you care about. I find myself…

Fear and Perfectionism

fear ˈfir/ noun  an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat & per·fec·tion·ism pərˈfekSHəˌnizəm/ noun refusal to accept any standard short of perfection. Fear, and perfectionism are two things that can most certainly cause issues regarding new relationships. Don’t get me wrong, being…

Will The Real Debbie Downer Please Shut Up

We have all had our bad days. It’s inevitable. It’s going to happen, but the most important thing is to try & look at things in a positive way. YES, of course it is going to be hard some days. Some days you just want to stay in bed, & literally feel sorry for yourself,…