What Are With All The Excuses?

ex·cuse verb ikˈskyo͞oz/ attempt to lessen the blame attaching to (a fault or offense); seek to defend or justify. So many of us try and make sense of situations by making excuses for people’s behavior (especially ones we are interested in) rather than looking at the big picture and realizing that something is off. Why…

Mean Girls

Why is it that women are in constant competition with one another? Whether it be regarding guys, or the way one looks, or what materialistic stuff one may have. We are always constantly trying to one up each other and many women are intentionally malicious. Correction, women are not in competition with one another, girls…

fa·mil·iar·i·ty over the un·known

fa·mil·iar·i·ty fəˌmilyˈerədē/ noun the quality of being well known; recognizability based on long or close association. I feel like most people have that one person, that one person that they can’t let go of. For whatever reason, when the going gets tough, or when you’re unsure of something, you always find yourself drawn to them.…

Fear and Perfectionism

fear ˈfir/ noun  an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat & per·fec·tion·ism pərˈfekSHəˌnizəm/ noun refusal to accept any standard short of perfection. Fear, and perfectionism are two things that can most certainly cause issues regarding new relationships. Don’t get me wrong, being…