What Are With All The Excuses?

ex·cuse verb ikˈskyo͞oz/ attempt to lessen the blame attaching to (a fault or offense); seek to defend or justify. So many of us try and make sense of situations by making excuses for people’s behavior (especially ones we are interested in) rather than looking at the big picture and realizing that something is off. Why…

Tinder is a Hypocrite

I have been using Tinder for quite sometime, and I have met my fair share of people off of it. (You know who you are, holllaaaa) I always thought I was a respectful Tinder user, but apparently I am not. I got home from work on December 21st and I clicked on my Tinder app…

Tinder Experiment

I’ve been an avid Tinder user for quite sometime… yes I will admit it. Gotta find prince charming somewhere… I decided to do an experiment and see how many people I could match with, how many people message me first, and how many guys will give me their number without even having a conversation first.…

Fear and Perfectionism

fear ˈfir/ noun  an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat & per·fec·tion·ism pərˈfekSHəˌnizəm/ noun refusal to accept any standard short of perfection. Fear, and perfectionism are two things that can most certainly cause issues regarding new relationships. Don’t get me wrong, being…