I am Not a Doormat

Many of us have trouble when it comes to standing up for ourselves or others. Instead we sit there and be treated poorly, or watch others be treated poorly. It’s a really shitty feeling when someone treats you poorly, when you have done nothing wrong, especially when it’s by someone you care about. I find myself…

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Fear and Perfectionism

fear ˈfir/ noun  an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat & per·fec·tion·ism pərˈfekSHəˌnizəm/ noun refusal to accept any standard short of perfection. Fear, and perfectionism are two things that can most certainly cause issues regarding new relationships. Don’t get me wrong, being…